Tiwa Savage’s marriage: When the basis of marriage changes…
konknaijaboy | On 02, May 2016
Tiwa Savage was a picture in emotional breakdown in that interview on Pulse TV. She just revealed the reverse fairy tale of a marriage she’s having with her husband Tee bliz. It was a marriage that was deliberately opened to the public and everything opened to the public takes a life of its own.
When it’s cool, the razzmatazz is overwhelming. However, when it turns the other way, it’s like a tsunami of unimaginable proportion. Tiwa savage has been taught the other side of the Public show that’s different from the cheers from her musical shows.
Now let’s check it out: Tiwage savage married her manager (Tee bliz). The guy was attached to her. The guy’s business world was intertwined with hers. His daily livelihood, as a manager, was based on how successful or otherwise Tiwa was. He must look for shows for her. He negotiated shows for her. He checked out endorsements for her. He collects her money from clients. He, as her manager, was very involved with her livelihood.
Somehow, they became emotionally involved and everything changed. The definition of what defined their marriage has always been based on employer-employee scenario. It’s been based on business relationship. Once you mix business with pure emotions, then you should really expect strange stuffs.
In the course of their marriage, Tiwa Savage understood this fact and removed her hubby as her manager. This was not going to work as it has never been the basis of the marriage. The marriage took its strength from the business relationship they’ve had. Once you remove that basis, the foundation of the marriage is compromised. The wall being leaned on by the losing party is cracked. It becomes more dangerous if the losing party believes he/she is “really losing”. He would charge back like a bull that has seen red flashed at it. It won’t be funny. Tee bliz has shown you some samples..
Tiwa Savage deliberately, on her absolute accord, entered a marriage where she would ultimately be the breadwinner. She knew she would be the wife and the employer at the same time. The world of show business has a different kind of reality. She should have understood that once you enter into that kind of alliance in a show business atmosphere, you have to be ready to shoulder some” unfortunate responsibilities”. I guess she got tired of that as everything took a dark turn. All hell broke loose.
Every marriage has a basis. It could be based on love. It could be based on money. It could be based on beauty. It could be based on business. It could be based on sex. It could be based on family backgrounds. It could be based on anything. No two marriages have the same basis. Once the basis of any marriage is cracked, then what you see is what you get.
It’s not that Tiwa savage or tee bliz is necessary bad. What happened is a common phenomenon, where people either refuse to accept reality or just ignore it while hoping for the best. To be fair, you’ve got some cases in which the best still comes out, however, the general case is always trouble. Once expectations are just based on hope, then you’ve got to brace yourself up for issues like these.
Tiwa Savage has learnt a fact of life. A frustrated, angry and hopeless man who believes that his idea of marriage to you has been defeated is a very dangerous man. He believes that his progress is based on Tiwa’s career which he has lost in the course of the marriage. For him, it’s over. He has lost it. That is the problem.
For now, It is a complication that only Tiwa Savage can solve. That man called Tee bliz has nothing to lose. He is just helpless and hopeless. He is down the ladder. The way he looked at the marriage got blown into pieces in his very eyes. Marriage to Tiwa was his way to stardom and prosperity. He is not seeing it and he is revolting. That is the way it is…
The ball is in Tiwa savage’s court….Ewolewoo!!